Seeing Life Through a Different Lens
Why Perspective-Shifting Might Be the Most Transformational Work You Ever Do
When I traveled back home to Morocco this past August with my son — it was his very first time — I saw the country through a completely new lens.
From his eyes, the everyday things I’d taken for granted felt magical again.
The warmth of my extended family. The humor and energy in every sibling conversation. The simplicity of life — one built around community, daily rituals, and laughter echoing around the dinner table.
The meals stretched longer, the moments slowed down. And in that slowing… I noticed how full life felt.
Sometimes, it takes seeing something through someone else’s eyes to realize what was always there.
This is what we mean when we talk about shifting your lens.
It's not about escaping your reality — it's about expanding it.
And once you do, everything starts to feel different: relationships, stress, your own sense of purpose.
What It Means to Shift Your Lens
We each carry a lens — shaped by our experiences, our beliefs, our nervous system, and our memories.
The challenge is, we often confuse that lens for the truth.
But your perspective isn't fixed.
You can train yourself to soften it, stretch it, and even swap it — and that’s where personal transformation begins.
How to See Life Through a Different Lens
If you’re in a season of rethinking everything — your habits, your identity, your relationships — this practice will ground you. These are nervous-system-friendly ways to begin seeing life differently:
1. Practice Empathy Like a Daily Ritual
Pause and truly listen. Imagine how the other person feels, not just what they’re saying.
This helps break cycles of defensiveness and makes space for connection.
“Empathy isn’t agreement. It’s understanding.”
2. Question Your Assumptions
So many of our core beliefs were formed in childhood or in survival.
It’s worth asking:
Is this thought still true today?
Am I reacting based on a story that’s no longer mine?
Start gently. Awareness is the first shift.
3. Expose Yourself to New Inputs
Read books by people who don’t look or think like you.
Spend time in unfamiliar environments.
Ask questions instead of assuming.
The goal isn’t to change who you are — it’s to expand who you understand.
4. Reframe Your Hard Seasons
Pain doesn’t always offer immediate clarity — but over time, it does offer perspective.
Try asking:
What is this teaching me?
What kind of version of me is this shaping?
Reframing doesn’t mean denying reality. It means finding the gift in it.
5. Recognize Your Lens for What It Is
Your beliefs, triggers, and emotional reactions are filtered through your unique lens.
Acknowledging that truth gives you more choice in how you respond.
Why It Matters
When you change your perspective, you shift your nervous system out of hypervigilance and into curiosity.
You create space.
You see options where before there were only patterns.
You soften the grip of control and make peace with life’s uncertainties.
This isn’t just mindset work. It’s healing work.
🌀 Reflection Prompts to Shift Your Lens
Where might I be stuck in a rigid way of seeing things?
What assumption have I been carrying that’s due for re-evaluation?
Whose perspective could I practice stepping into this week?
What lesson might this challenge be offering me?
Final Thought
Your lens is like a window — it gets cloudy, it narrows, and it can distort.
But it can also be cleaned.
Opened.
Expanded.
Let this season be your invitation to look again — not because your life needs to be changed, but because your view of it might.
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